Showing posts with label STUCK. Show all posts
Showing posts with label STUCK. Show all posts

Tuesday, January 25, 2011

LADIES - QUIT WAITING FOR YOUR LIFE AND RELATIONSHIP TO FEEL BETTER AND CHOOSE TO MAKE IT BETTER!

by Linda Nuss on Monday, January 24, 2011 at 7:59pm

Connection is Key to Love of any kind!

Dear Friends and "Sisters" of Mine,

It's time to take charge of your life and quit thinking things are going to change when you keep doing things the same as you've always done them.

If you've followed me at all on FaceBook or my LIGHT ME UP! Radio show, then you know how passionate I am about self love and spiritual empowerment!  It kills me to see women suffering in their relationships and thinking that it HAS to be that way.

I've FINALLY decided to serve my fellow Sisters and provide an affordable and effective way to gain understanding as to what's keeping you stuck and unhappy in your life and relationships.  You are powerful beyond measure and YOU HOLD THE KEY to unlock the door to the life you deserve!

If you can relate to this - I can help!

I am setting up a 5 Week Program that includes a weekly 60 - 75 minute group call.  During the 5 week program I will be including 2 extra one hour Q&A calls to address any burning questions you may have.  I will be presenting the KEY reasons why women get stuck and surrender to feeling unhappy in their relationships.  I will provide you with the tools and concepts to begin to create the change you're looking for in order to, either create REAL change in your current relationship, or create the kind of relationship you may be seeking.

THE ONLY REQUIREMENT IS THAT YOU HAVE THE COURAGE TO SHOW UP AND THAT YOU ARE REALLY OPEN AND READY FOR CHANGE.

It's amazing and liberating to unleash the "You" that has been hiding for so long.  There is HUGE benefits in having a circle of loving, nurturing women who can totally relate to you and support one another.  You will feel an unmistakable organic bond that occurs in these group situations.  Trust me when I say that the truth about WHY things are the way they are, will be the same for every person in the group - no matter how different their individual circumstances may be.

I will be accepting only 12 people in this group in order to keep it more intimate, so if you're interested - act fast.

Message me on FB or email me linda.nuss@lightmeupradio.com for cost. The class will be starting the week of Feb. 14th and deposits will be needed to reserve your spot. I'm so excited to be offering this and look forward to working and connecting with 12 of you Lovely ladies out there!

Love and Light to you!

NAMASTE!!

Linda

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Thursday, January 20, 2011

DOES YOUR PARTNER SABOTAGE ANY ATTEMPT YOU MAKE TO EMPOWER YOURSELF?


WHY ME?

This is such a common thing I see over and over again! Women in relationships feeling stuck and unhappy.   Their husbands control almost every aspect of their life.   Did your ears just perk up a bit because you can relate?

It makes me crazy!!   To see women putting up with this when the solution is right there, WAITING to be acknowledged and discovered.   The ironic thing is, it's  something that only they can change.  Now don't get offended.  I was you at one point and time so I completely "get it".

READY FOR THE GOOD NEWS?

I'm here to tell you some empowering news....  It has nothing to do with changing your Partner or Husband.  You have the complete power to change everything!   I know you must be thinking - "whatever"... she doesn't know my husband.  There's no way I can change ANYTHING!  The truth of the matter is...that thought alone is just another un-serving belief!  It's coming from a place of fear.

 

EXCUSES, EXCUSES, EXCUSES!

 The typical response I hear and the typical "reactive" behavior  goes something like this:   " God! He's such and A**Hole.   He just wants to have a say in everything I do but he gets to do whatever he wants in the relationship, when he wants!"  "Selfish!"

THIS HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU!

 There are actually women out there NOT working out, NOT wearing make up when they would like to, NOT reading Personal Development books and NOT going to church or exploring spirituality (just to name a few) BECAUSE their husbands give them too much grief to make it worth it. .  Are you one of them?  There's a reason the men in your life do not want you to do things like this.  They are much too unconscious to even realize it themselves, but hey are fearful of loosing you (the very thing they may end up creating with their behaviors).   They are much more comfortable keeping you under their thumb.  Have you noticed whenever they push you a little too far, they switch to the "kissy face" "mister nice guy" control method.  And so it goes.  The ugly vicious circle.  But honestly - that's more about them and really has nothing to do with you.

If this is you....Let me give you some good news. The #1 reason this is happening is because you are ready for growth.   The opportunity is presenting itself to give you the "choice" to  be open to developing a whole new level of existence.

If for some reason you just aren't ready, don't worry, the opportunity will continue to present itself again and again, until you finally do something about it.  Believe me, the Universe is pretty relentless in giving you what you look at.  If you are looking at your husband who doesn't support you and is making you feel stuck and unworthy, then by all means, it will give you just that.

DO YOU WANT LOVE OR NOT?

Honestly, all it takes is a change in perception.  It requires focus and a willingness to be open to new ideas and challenge old beliefs.  What I can guarantee you is that you're husband is not the problem.  Don't for one second think he has that kind of power.  It all about YOU.   You hold within yourself the KEY to unlocking the life you don't even dare to dream about.  You have the ability and the knowledge within you and just need a little guidance, that's all.

Don't fear my friend.  Your life is playing out perfectly.  All is in alignment with where you need to be.  You will choose the right path no matter what.  Hopefully you will choose with love in your heart for yourself and start the journey of living and creating your life on purpose!

If you want to explore further and would like a free 15 minute consultation with me, please email me:  linda.nuss@lightmeupradio.com or call and leave me a message:  970-674-7339

I want nothing more than to help you understand how amazing you really are!!!

Namaste my friend!

Linda

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Saturday, January 15, 2011

BEING LONELY VS. BEING ALONE

By Linda Nuss - Source: domain-b 

 

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"How can I feel so alone when there are so many people around?"
That is the quote that was written on the stairwell of my college dorm 25 years ago.  I totally related to it as a freshman, and still think about it now.

New York University (NYU), being in Manhattan, is always a center of activity and there are masses of people everywhere.  As a newbie to the city, I knew no one, and had yet to connect with others that I felt a chemistry or kinship with - my roommates had no clue how to do laundry!!   How was I supposed to connect with them? 


DON’T BECOME ANOTHER STATISTIC

The truth is loneliness is about being alone, as in no one being around you.  Feeling alone is when people are around you, but you feel no warmth, intimacy or connection.   So, whether you are in a big city, or in the “wrong” relationship, you can feel alone.  The sad thing is that many women stay in relationships for years where they feel alone!    
Maybe they feel that "No one else will love them," or cannot bear to think of spending an evening or weekend without a boyfriend.  What would they do if they did not have a boyfriend to make them "miserable?"  Hmmm, maybe they would start a new job, hobby or exercise routine.  But, instead of moving on, they become comfortably uncomfortable.  Sometimes they even marry Mr. "Well you are better than nothing."  Months or years go by; they lose the spring in their step, the glow in their complexion, and the sparkle in their eyes.  Then, one day they meet a new guy who they sense a connection with, and finally, the relationship that should have ended years ago does, and the married couple becomes a divorce statistic.

NEVER FEEL ALONE AGAIN

OK, enough sad stuff.  Let's rise above this scenario.  Let's make sure the guy we attach ourselves to makes our heart smile. THIS IS WORTH READING - KEEP GOING!!

 

Namaste!

 

Linda Nuss

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